Intergenerational Roomies-Would you Live with Someone of a Different Age?

Intergenerational Roomies-Is this a Trend for You?

In recent years, a growing number of people have embraced the idea of living with roommates their own age, but an increasingly popular trend is intergenerational roommate living. This concept involves individuals from different age groups sharing a home or close quarters (i.e. housing communes) that benefit each other.

Mentors and Confidantes

One of the most appealing aspects of living with someone from a different generation is the opportunity for mutual learning. Older roommates can offer life experiences, wisdom, and perspectives that younger individuals may not have yet encountered. Meanwhile, younger roommates can introduce their older counterparts to new technologies, cultural trends, or social issues that might not be as familiar. This exchange of ideas can enhance personal growth, broaden viewpoints, and create a unique bond based on shared knowledge. An older roommie can offer financial advice, or great cooking tips, a younger roomie can help them navigate technical snafus or assist with physical tasks that might be uncomfortable (or example, shoveling snow). These reasons, and many more, are a comfort for those who might have relocated away from a family or have limited family assistance. Community benefits also double with an intergenerational social circle.

Unexpected Companions

Loneliness can be an issue for both younger and older adults. For older adults, particularly those who may be empty nesters or retired, living with a younger person can provide a sense of connection. With children out of the house and no daily routine, it can be a lonely part of life. Similarly, younger individuals, whether students or young professionals, may appreciate the stability and mentorship that an older roommate provides.

What if we Clash?

Different generations can have very different outlooks. This can be a great thing, but as we see on Facebook comment sections, sometimes, it can create an issue! The most important thing to remember is everyone, of all ages, will have their own opinion and its important to get to know your potential Roomies really well before making the big leap. Here are some questions you can ask a roomie and decide from there if they are a good fit:

1. What would be a dealbreaker? (Hobbies, personal opinions, etc).
2. Do you have a set schedule or is each week different?
3. How often do you have family or friends over for a visit?
4. Is your income steady?
5. Do you like to be up early or late?
6. How often do you cook?
7. Do you have a preferred schedule for cleaning and laundry?
8. Do my schedule and priorites align with what you are seeking?

Affordable Housing Solutions is Possible with Multigenerational Roomies

In many areas,both urban and suburban, the cost of living is rising, and housing prices and inflation are at an all-time high. Groceries and utilies, fueling your car, and heating your home have become larger costs, according to the Consumer Price Index chart. For both older and younger individuals, living alone can be a financial strain. Sharing rent and utilities can make housing more affordable for everyone involved. Some roomies even have barter arrangements, where personal care, housekeeping, cooking, or even babysitting is offered in exchange for housing.

Older adults, especially those on fixed incomes or social security, may find it difficult to maintain a larger home. Home repairs, cleaning, yard maintenance, are all activities that become increasingly difficult with age. Younger people, with rising student debt, entry-level salaries, or non traditional families, may also feel a financial struggle and struggle with a lack of time to complete their tasks each day. By splitting costs and household labor, both groups can live more comfortably with someone from a different stage of life.

Improved Household Stability

Unlike traditional roommates who may come and go based on their life circumstances, an intergenerational roommate dynamic often leads to more stable living arrangements. Older adults tend to be more settled and less likely to move frequently, which can bring a sense of consistency to the living situation. This stability is particularly appealing for younger individuals who may have experienced the instability of temporary living situations or a revolving door of short-term roommates. A monthly pension check and guaranteed income is a bonus for older roommates, and the ability to work longer hours to save more of their paycheck without having to scrimp and save for a deposit every 6 months, is a bonus for younger renters. Studies also show, having a long-term, reliable living partner can reduce stress.

The Ties That Bind

Living with an intergenerational roommate can expand both your social circle and your support network. Older individuals may have established professional connections, social groups, or family ties that younger roommates can tap into, while younger roommates may have access to fresh social opportunities, networks, or hobbies that can be introduced to the older generation. In this way, intergenerational living can help both parties develop richer social lives and tap into broader community resources. Coliving with experienced professionals can also open doors to broader opportunities, whether that be with network connections, or just general knowledge.

Building Your Own Community with Roomies

With the recent election, we are seeing that a sense of community is more important than ever.
In many ways, intergenerational roommates can create a sense of chosen family. As people age, their biological families may become more distant due to relocations, busy schedules, or generational divides. Intergenerational coliving allows people to build close, bonds with someone as you navigate life’s challenges, from career changes to health issues.

More than just a practical arrangement; coliving with people of different ages is a unique opportunity to form connections that bridge age gaps, encourage personal growth, and provide emotional support. Whether you’re a young professional looking for affordable housing or an older adult seeking financial and/physical assistance, living with an intergenerational roommate can offer benefits that go far beyond shared rent.

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